as an example...
a person is much better at the game of table tennis than the person she or he is playing
in the writers experience a person get more enjoyment from the game by using superior skills to bring out the best skills in the other person
it's surprising how quickly the game of the less skilled person begins to improve and in no time at all your partner is producing moves that make you stretch
it beats the pants off defeating the lesser skilled person quickly and decisively
winning easily doesn't give the superior player a feeling of satisfaction whereas equally matched skills can, theoretically, go on forever and since losing heavily doesn't make the defeated person feel happy why not produce a situation where the feel-good factor is doubled
this mundane example is, believe it or not, the very stuff of the heavenly experience
it's practising love that takes us to heaven and it's an act of love that brings us back to earth
being part of the forever reality may well start with the reader thinking of an original way
(in cooking, washing, dressing, playing, talking, writing, designing clothes, personal relationships, casual meetings...)
of practising the applicaton of love in their life today, or simply applying it |