15th feb

laughing dream

first dream this year when was woken out of the dream because of my own laughing... in a picture house that only had 7 or 8 rows of seats either side of a central aisle


there were four or five of us men who had arrived late and our wives were in the front row and all the seats were taken


i got the attention of my wife and gave her a smile and she waved which in turn had a knock-on effect to the other wives who then all turned and waved to their respective husbands


what was funny about it was the short distance between where the men were standing and the front row (three or four metres)


it was the same circumstances and the same sort wave a toddler gives to someone who is within a metre or two of her or him


it made me smile and decided to capitalise on the moment, which one or two of the men had also latched on to, by saying something which caused another childish response and everybody, except the women, realised what happened, and started laughing


two points here... the sense of distance that a child, and to a lesser extent, women have, is different from males


why that is so is to do with a persons attitude or outlook on life... the more attuned a person is to life and other people the more distance there is to reality. again, children and women are leading the way

this dream was the result of the day being an "other persons day" (spent all day working on things that were for the benefit of other people)

this an externalized dream