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experiencing, whether wanting to or not wanting to, every aspect of another being
the thoughts, the emotions, the feelings, the physical state, the memories, the desires, the fears...
the lover has experienced, and has to experience, every good thing and every bad thing that every being that has ever existed has brought into existence or will bring into existence
in the case of murder... in just about every instance that comes to mind murder happened because there was a preparedness ( page 57 ) by the murderer to be in those circumstances where murder could occur
so it's not just having to experience an act of murder but also the mental disposition of being prepared to commit murder that has to be experienced
the writer is mindful of this and is going to make sure that those beings of the mammal class who have a disposition to commit murder or subject him to anything undesirable do not get the chance to do so